Decisions in life

Decisions in life...the most difficult ones, some taken in an instant,some taken after a lot of thoughts..I really wonder how our life change with each and every decision we make.Sometimes we find it very easy to take a decision and at times it feels like a lifetime itself is not enough.

Here what which amuses me is that how do we make decisions in life. Sometimes we make decisions for our own benefits.These decisions may include our profession, studies we like to choose and are very important in our life. It is really crucial that these decisions should be taken after a lot of thoughts as these are the decisions that control your life. Make sure that these decisions are taken by YOU as they sooner or later affect your life, though it's better to get advices from others, but final decision should be yours. This avoids the need to blame others later and also you can be proud of making your own life, even mistakes make your own, study from them and move forward.The mistakes and failure that we make are stepping stones to our success so why should we be afraid of them

Then there are decisions that can affect others like marriage, planning to shift your home etc: These decisions are very challenging as mostly these are long term decisions that affect not only your life but also that of your near and dear ones. Make sure these decisions are well planned, organized and have the desired consent of all the people involved.Never make these decisions in haste and think from all positive and negative sides that whether you are ready for this.

There are other decisions that may affect the society or a set of people in general like when you make business deals, try to build something new in a place. Here take the majority decision but make sure you are not going against nature or basic happiness of any living thing. Here you have to be cautious as the impact of your decision can be huge. With great power comes great responsibility and how we utilize that really makes the difference.

Make sure your decisions won't hurt anyone as far as you can control it. It's impossible to make everyone happy every time with your decisions, but make sure as far as you can don't play with others emotions or manipulate them.

Sadness strengthens life

Often we think that why sadness come to our life, we are good to everyone and why is it that sadness finds a way to get to us. Well, I believe sadness is a way by which we understand how strong we are. Like the lack of food makes us understand the importance of it, the presence of sadness makes us understand the happiness we have in life.

When you feel sad, think about the following points

(1) Does this thing that I am worrying about is really worth it? Most problems can be corrected over time with a bit of hard work and patience. Worrying about something wont make it go better.

(2) Am I the saddest person around? Definitely not..There are many who don't even have the basic necessities of life, compared to them you are in heaven

(3) Is my time really worth to be sad. Time and tide waits for no man, so enjoy the moments you have.

Love
Sujith

Love:
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The word 'love' itself is divine.The strongest word, the word that everyone uses, the thing that everyone seeks for...Love, according to me, is the feeling that we have towards someone or something that is unconditional and non-judgmental. True love doesn't need the beauty of the face but need the truth of the heart.Sometimes it takes us a lifetime to understand what love is all about, sometimes it remains as a mystery for us and again sometimes it feels so easy to feel the effects of love.

Love gives us the strength to stand against any hardship, it makes us believe in ourselves, takes away the pain and sufferings from us. The time we have in this world is limited, try to love others and share the happiness, stay healthy and stay true to yourself.

God's grace

One day a man was praying and God appeared before him. The man was really happy to see God.
Man:"Are you God?"
God:" Yes; i listen you praying everyday that I should come to you to answer your questions,so here am I, you can ask me any question."
Man:"Take me to a place that no human has seen in this world if you are God."
God took man to a seashore which was very vast.There were two sets of footprints on the floor.
Man:"Where are we?"
God:"This is your life, in sands of time. What you are seeing are our footprints and your life is going from happiness at this end to sadness on the other."
Man noticed that at the time of happiness there were 2 sets of footprints,but only one set of footprints at the time of sadness.
Man:"Look,i was right; at the time of happiness you walked with me and in sadness I see only my own footprints,this is what I dislike."
God:"The footprints you see is mine, I was carrying you at that time, that's why your footprints are missing.
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Man:" Why do you give us so much sadness?"
God: "Why do you like happiness this much and work hard to obtain it,because you have sorrows.Without sadness a person will not be able to understand what happiness is."
Man:"But some of your ways are too harsh."
God:"Count the number of blessings I give you one day and the number of hardships.The way you wake up everyday to see another beautiful morning while many are not able to or are suffering from illness,many fighting poverty,not even having the money to have some food, the way you go to work and come back safely....My blessings are endless,your count will not be enough for that..That way you will understand how much I love you
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Man:"Why don't you make me the richest person on the earth, no excuse, I will be happy."

God made man the richest person. Man was very happy. Slowly he felt like people love him only for his money;some people even tried to cheat and get money from him.

Man:"I want a room which is fool proof where I can store my money that nobody other than me can enter."

God gave him a room very strong that man filled the room with money. He spend hours inside the room seeing his wealth, hours became days and days weeks. he cut himself from the world almost fully and whenever he took some money from the room to pay, he was sad that the amount was lowering. So he skipped food at times so that he can save that much money. He wore ragged clothes and though his room was filled with money, he felt terrible. At the end, he understood his fault. He prayed to God:" I just need your love and my old life back."

God gave him his old life and said:"I know what everyone needs and so I give them that,it's what you make out of your life that matters."

Succeed in Life

Everyone needs success, that is one thing that people are ready to die for.

• The most important thing for success is to do something that you enjoy doing,something you feel worth doing.
• Hard work is another thing which always gives us results slowly but steadily
• Believe in yourself. No person is useless, find your strength and work on it
• Never go looking for success, follow your heart, do what you are good at and success follows
• Help others and treat them with compassion and love; treat them as you want to be treated.
• Believe in God and trust that better things are waiting for you. Failure is the stepping stone to success, work hard till you succeed.
• Be generous and don't be proud. Everything we have is due to God's grace