Decisions in life

Decisions in life...the most difficult ones, some taken in an instant,some taken after a lot of thoughts..I really wonder how our life change with each and every decision we make.Sometimes we find it very easy to take a decision and at times it feels like a lifetime itself is not enough.

Here what which amuses me is that how do we make decisions in life. Sometimes we make decisions for our own benefits.These decisions may include our profession, studies we like to choose and are very important in our life. It is really crucial that these decisions should be taken after a lot of thoughts as these are the decisions that control your life. Make sure that these decisions are taken by YOU as they sooner or later affect your life, though it's better to get advices from others, but final decision should be yours. This avoids the need to blame others later and also you can be proud of making your own life, even mistakes make your own, study from them and move forward.The mistakes and failure that we make are stepping stones to our success so why should we be afraid of them

Then there are decisions that can affect others like marriage, planning to shift your home etc: These decisions are very challenging as mostly these are long term decisions that affect not only your life but also that of your near and dear ones. Make sure these decisions are well planned, organized and have the desired consent of all the people involved.Never make these decisions in haste and think from all positive and negative sides that whether you are ready for this.

There are other decisions that may affect the society or a set of people in general like when you make business deals, try to build something new in a place. Here take the majority decision but make sure you are not going against nature or basic happiness of any living thing. Here you have to be cautious as the impact of your decision can be huge. With great power comes great responsibility and how we utilize that really makes the difference.

Make sure your decisions won't hurt anyone as far as you can control it. It's impossible to make everyone happy every time with your decisions, but make sure as far as you can don't play with others emotions or manipulate them.

Sadness strengthens life

Often we think that why sadness come to our life, we are good to everyone and why is it that sadness finds a way to get to us. Well, I believe sadness is a way by which we understand how strong we are. Like the lack of food makes us understand the importance of it, the presence of sadness makes us understand the happiness we have in life.

When you feel sad, think about the following points

(1) Does this thing that I am worrying about is really worth it? Most problems can be corrected over time with a bit of hard work and patience. Worrying about something wont make it go better.

(2) Am I the saddest person around? Definitely not..There are many who don't even have the basic necessities of life, compared to them you are in heaven

(3) Is my time really worth to be sad. Time and tide waits for no man, so enjoy the moments you have.

Love
Sujith